I killed my first wife once I found out there is a mercenary you can marry who gives you up to 300 gold a day (in Whiterun). The only requirement, of course, being that I had to hire her first. So I hired her, and then I popped the question, to which she replied the usual: tell the priest to arrange the wedding.
When we reached Riften I told her to wait, just outside the bee and barb, and arranged the wedding. I went through the process, and the second it finished she left, I followed but as I left she was nowhere to be seen. I have tried going back to my house, the pub where I hired her and that same spot in Riften about 6 times each now, some during the day, some during the night and cannot find her at all.
Now this isn't to much of a problem because I can re-marry...oh wait, to remarry, my spouse has to die, so I can't claim gold off her and can't remarry, and the autosaves have been used up fast travelling to the places I thought she might've been. My last save is something like 6 levels ago, and I don't want to have to load it.
What should I do about this situation?