As usual the UESPWiki has the most coherent collection of information on this topic.
The basic idea is that the two different plates and the scrap metal are "worthy" of collecting:
- Small Dwemer Plate Metal
- Large Dwemer Plate Metal
- Bent Dwemer Scrap Metal
Each of those will produce 1.5 times their weight in Dwarfen Metal Ingots (don't ask me how the physics of this works out). Interesting sidenote: the Large Dwemer Plate Metal and the Small Dwemer Plate Metal are effectively equivalent on every stat, despite their names suggesting differently.
The other stuff is not usually worth it, unless you don't worry about carry weight. The problem with those, is that they produce a lot less Dwarfen Metal Ingots than their weight would suggest (in decreasing order of ingots per weight-unit produced):
- Solid Dwemer Metal
- Large Dwemer Strut
- Large Decorative Dwemer Strut
Any other "Dwemer" item that is on neither of those two lists can't be smelted to produce Dwarfen Metal Ingots at all: it's vendor thrash (or used in the occasional quest).