I have iOS 13 but I did set this up before I updated my phone so I'm not sure if I was just grandfathered in. Try the following in the Health app:
- Hit the icon in the top right corner to go to your account.
- Under the privacy section hit apps.
- You should see Pokemon GO there.
Then just allow access to everything as suggested in the instructions from Pokemon GO.
EDIT:
Per the conversation in the comments, follow the directions in this Reddit thread https://www.reddit.com/r/pokemongo/comments/c58uo5/adventure_sync_on_ios_13_possible/ to fix this issue in iOS13 if the above did not work:
- Turn off automatic app download under General in the watch app (if you have an apple watch).
- Reinstall Pokemon GO.