It's easy enough to check an individual's opinion of you, and their opinion of their liege. But what about their opinion of someone else?
For example, say you as a king want to decide how to distribute duchies. You might want to grant them to two individuals who like each other so the realm is more stable, or to two individuals who loathe each other so they won't jointly rebel against you. Since one is not the liege of the other, how do you check their opinions of one another?