I decided to build a homestead, so I bought the land from the Jarl of Falkreath. I build the small house, west wing, and haven't finished the library. I have one adopted kid (Sophie) and a husband (Marcurio). At first, it was only me and Sophie, and when I tried to bring up the dialogue to move, it didn't show "Lakeview Manor" as an option (I only have the house in Whiterun, which I'm living in, and Lakeview Manor). I read that it could fix it to marry someone, so I married Marcurio. When we got married, it only had the Whiterun house as an option, and now the dialogue to move won't show for either. I would really rather live in Lakeview Manor, as I've spent a ton of time on building it. I don't want to restart from before I built it. Are there any fixes to this annoying bug?
I am playing on the PC. I already tried to "resurrect" Sophie so her package reset, it didn't work and now it won't even show the moving dialogue