I finished the first heist on GTA online. I started the second heist the prison break. Me and other players finished the setup for it and the wet works unlocked I tried starting it as host but it says it will mess up my all in order challenge. I tried like 5 times and even quit the game left my apartment and turned off the system but it still says this. Do you know what's going on? Also, right now I could play the heist as a team member not host without messing the all in order challenge.
If you start a heist as host, then you have to do all heist missions, including all setups. You cannot skip any of the missions when starting a heist as a host. In your case, this will mean not doing the heist missions in order.
Check this site for requirements: iDigitalTimes heist overview. Hopefully it has your solution. I'm copying the first part of it below.
If you just want the quick run-down of what you need to do, here you go. I'll explain each step further below if you are confused.
- Heist Leader must be level 12 or higher
- Heist Leader must own a high-end apartment with a planning board
- Heist Leader must have enough money to front the cost of the heist him/herself**