I have now played the A Night To Remember questions twice. My follower (I also married him for the convenience factor) Marcurio. I am playing on PS4. First time through, Marcurio followed me into the Grove and when I was teleported back, he was gone. I picked him up at The Bee and Barb, so naturally I checked to see if he was there. Nope. Then went to Solitude where our house is with our two kids. Nope, not there either. I waited 3 days in each location. Nothing. So I went back, reloaded, and the second time around, I told him to wait in my house in Riften. I flew through the quest a second time, came back to Honeyside. Nope. He's gone. Checked The Bee and Barb (again), nope. Went to Solitude again, kids were there, dad no where to be found. How can I complete this quest without looking my follower/hubs?
They do come back to The Bee and Barb, but it can be a random amount of time, sadly. You just have to wait. See here for the answer: https://www.reddit.com/r/skyrim/comments/18epcl/marcurio_has_vanished_how_can_i_get_him_back/