I tried to help out Lady Isolla of Suno when I had Dhirim and three or four castles. It didn't go well as in addition to the Swadians every other kingdom declared war on me. I thought if I told Isolla I didn't support her anymore than I could stop being a part of Swadian rebels, but I still was being attacked by everyone.
So I emptied out my remaining two castles of their garrisons and let them be captured, but I'm still Swadian rebels even though some screens don't list the rebels as a kingdom anymore.
Will I ever be able to go back to just being a freelancer and not being chased attacked by everyone?