That is your very personal view in the matter. I was just trying to be helpful. If you want ppl to leave the forums, you are doing a good job.

I answererd the questions if you read them your self - "the Realms owner has to know your game name to be able to send you an invitation", "it is free to play" "player all over the world can join" - and also gave some additional info - why is that wrong?